Trying hard and not achieving the success you want can feel devastating, but should you be judged for the effort you put in or the results you get? The idea of someone being a ‘natural’ at a chosen activity is common; can we really compete with someone who is a ‘natural’? Yes, we can! Natural talent counts for nothing without effort.
Wilma Rudolf overcame polio and other illnesses as a child to become an Olympic athlete. Was she born to win three gold medals?
Lionel Messi is regarded as the greatest footballer on the planet, and a ‘natural’ at the game. But did success really come naturally to him? Effort is just as important as achievement. So, the real mistake would be not to try.
The best organisations want their people to be creative, show effort and want you to learn. They recognise that mistakes will be just as likely as success, and your efforts will be praised alongside your achievements.
If you make the effort, then achievement will follow. It could be in one month…or one year. If you believe in your ideas, then we will too. Be confident in your ability, don’t let a setback affect you and when you achieve, be ready to do it again.
There are those people who like to say: ‘This is what I could have been..’. And other people who say: ‘I gave my all to be what I am today!’
Be proud of your achievements…and value the efforts you made!
A comfort zone is where we feel safe, relaxed, sheltered from the outside. Certain situations may mean you have to step out of this comfort zone.
Where do you start? Taking the first step is often the hardest. The thought of doing something that makes us feel uncomfortable can put doubt in our mind. To combat this doubt, make realistic goals, make your first target something simple but necessary, so you can take your first steps. It may be tempting to remain in your comfort zone but trying new things will help your confidence.
Stay motivated, look for new challenges and think about how you can achieve your goals. You might make mistakes or be uncertain, but you can always ask for help. If things don’t go to plan when you step outside your comfort zone, reflect on what you can do differently; be confident enough to change your approach.
Stepping out of your comfort zone will help your mind grow. The more you try, the more you’ll learn. And as your confidence grows, so will your comfort zone.
